Anyone else dealing with ex communication on family vacations?

Seeking Advice
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Hey folks I could use some perspective on how to limit my ex-wife’s communication with our kids during vacation time. I know it sounds harsh, but hear me out. We have a 50/50 custody schedule, and she rarely contacts them during my time. But when we go on vacation, she insists on calling daily, which gets disruptive. My youngest gets upset after talking to her, and it just feels like she’s on vacation with us.I don’t know how to handle this… any thoughts?

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Ugh, that sounds frustrating. Maybe set a specific time for calls instead of daily? Just a thought!

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Oaklan said:
Ugh, that sounds frustrating. Maybe set a specific time for calls instead of daily? Just a thought!

Yeah, scheduling a time could work. It might make it easier for everyone involved.

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Just block her number while you’re away. Seems easier, right? You can unblock it when you get back.

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Francesca said:
Just block her number while you’re away. Seems easier, right? You can unblock it when you get back.

But won’t that cause issues when you get back? IDK, feels like it might create drama.

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What about getting the kids a cheap watch so they can call their mom themselves? That way, they control the calls and don’t need to ask you.

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August said:
What about getting the kids a cheap watch so they can call their mom themselves? That way, they control the calls and don’t need to ask you.

That’s a cool idea! They could reach out whenever they want without bothering you.

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I agree with the idea of modifying the order to allow one scheduled call a day. It might help keep the peace.

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Layla said:
I agree with the idea of modifying the order to allow one scheduled call a day. It might help keep the peace.

Sounds reasonable! Just explain to your ex that it’s about family time and not her being excluded.

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I think your kids should be able to talk to their mom. It sucks about your step-kids, but that’s not your kids’ issue.

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Harper said:
I think your kids should be able to talk to their mom. It sucks about your step-kids, but that’s not your kids’ issue.

Yeah, totally agree! Maybe just schedule it to make it less disruptive.