Hey everyone, so I’m filing for joint custody of the kids (we’re in agreement on this) but my ex wants to be the custodial parent because of health insurance and his financial situation. I don’t plan on requiring child support and he’s willing to help out if needed when I have the kids. Anyone have advice or insight into this situation? I just want to make sure I don’t lose any rights with my three kids. Also, we’re planning to alternate every two weeks. Does that work out ok? Should we be worried about anything legally?
That sounds like a fair agreement, honestly. If you’re both going to be living near each other and can share responsibilities, a 50/50 split could definitely work. Are you both agreeing on big decisions like school and religion? You might want to lay that out clearly.
Sounds like you’re both on the same page. But if only one of you can be the custodial parent, the main difference is that they’re the one the kids live with full-time. You might still get to make decisions together though, as long as you have joint legal custody.
I’d recommend making sure everything’s in writing, especially when it comes to financial stuff. If you’re not asking for child support, make sure there’s something in place about how expenses will be shared, just to avoid confusion later.
If you’re both living close by, the 50/50 split should be fine. The court will want to see that the kids are being cared for equally and that it’s in their best interest, so it seems like you’re on the right track. Just make sure you both stay flexible with how things are working out!
I agree with everyone here. Just make sure you’re clear on the details, especially about decisions. If you’re both in agreement, you should be good to go! Also, don’t stress too much about the legal stuff; it’s just about making sure everything’s in the kids’ best interest.