Hey guys, I’m in a bit of a situation. My baby daddy has made it clear he doesn’t want custody or to pay child support for our firstborn. I’m curious if I can get him on child support even though we’re not together anymore. Has anyone gone through this process? I’d love to hear your experiences.
Yes, you can definitely file for child support even if you’re not married. In New York, the process usually involves going to family court.
jordansmith said:
Yes, you can definitely file for child support even if you’re not married. In New York, the process usually involves going to family court.
Thanks for the info! What do I need to do to start that process?
I went through a similar situation. I filed for child support at the local child support office. They helped me fill out the forms and explained what to expect.
Chelsea said:
I went through a similar situation. I filed for child support at the local child support office. They helped me fill out the forms and explained what to expect.
That sounds straightforward. How long did it take for you to get a court date?
It can take a few weeks to get a court date after you file. Just make sure you have all the necessary documentation ready.
Also, keep in mind that he might contest it, but the court will ultimately decide based on what’s best for the child.
Ursula said:
Also, keep in mind that he might contest it, but the court will ultimately decide based on what’s best for the child.
I appreciate the heads up. I just want to ensure my child is taken care of.
Don’t be discouraged if he tries to avoid it. The state can help enforce child support payments, even if he’s not willing to step up.
EdwardGenesis said:
Don’t be discouraged if he tries to avoid it. The state can help enforce child support payments, even if he’s not willing to step up.
That’s reassuring to hear. Thank you for the support! I’ll start looking into it.