I’m currently 5 months pregnant, and my ex knows about it through the grapevine in our small town. He suspects the baby is his, but I keep telling him it’s not. Just for some background, he has a history of being abusive to me physically, emotionally, and sexually. I got pregnant when he held me down; I never intended to have a child as I’m young. He also has a daughter whom he has full custody of, and I’ve witnessed emotionally abusive behavior towards her. I’ve filed multiple CPS complaints, but nothing has changed for her due to a lack of evidence. I’m worried about my child’s safety if he ever gets visitation rights. After I give birth, can he legally force me to provide a paternity test since he believes the baby is his? He’s the only man I’ve been with in over a year, but I’m still scared.
You need to seek help. You should discuss your situation with a legal professional or a domestic violence support organization. There are options that might help you stay safe.
In Mississippi, he can absolutely file for a paternity test. It might be tough, but you should consider speaking with a lawyer to understand your rights and what steps to take next.
I agree with DEF. You might want to look into your options for moving out of state before the baby arrives. It can complicate things for him if you’re in a different jurisdiction.
I think you should look into filing a restraining order. If he’s been abusive towards you, that can work in your favor during custody discussions.
I’d recommend documenting everything. Keep those abusive messages and try to gather evidence you can take to court. This could help with any abuse claims.
Moving to another state could really make it harder for him to contest your custody in the future. Make sure to have a support network if you go that route.
If you’re able to get assistance from domestic violence organizations, they can also help with finding a safe place and legal advice. You have options.
What if the baby is born and he files for the paternity test? Can he just pursue custody without me saying it’s his?
You need to be cautious if he has money and influence. It can complicate matters, but that doesn’t mean you can’t stand your ground legally.
It sounds like you’re in a really tough position. Make sure to reach out to legal aid or hotlines that can help you navigate this safely.