Over the years, I have dealt with many single mothers and heard their tales. I have shared their stories with my male friend. He is adamant that “the judge” will make him pay. It is not that easy, I told him. To make sense of why it is so hard to convince the other guy to pay child support, I need actual stories told to him. I would be grateful for an explanation if I am mistaken. I am grateful in advance.
It’s not always easy to get child support even with a court order. Sometimes the other parent might not have a steady income or the means to pay. It’s a real struggle for many, and sharing these stories can help your friend understand why it’s so tough.
Instead of focusing on ‘convincing’ someone, maybe reframe it as ensuring both parents contribute fairly to their child’s well-being.