My disabled veteran friend is dealing with a messy divorce. His wife unexpectedly took their kids to Texas without his consent, staying with a felon on the run for domestic violence charges. He managed to get the kids back through legal channels, but she’s now accusing him of abuse despite no evidence, while her boyfriend has a violent criminal record. He’s freaking out and needs advice on whether he’s at a disadvantage in custody as a father.
He should file for a restraining order. There is a fee but if there is domestic violence or harassment there is no fee.
I went with him to the hearing for emergency custody. The commissioner scolded her about the rules of filing divorce. Following this, the kids seemed to be doing well back home, but he’s struggling a lot with everything happening.
It sounds like he’s in a rough spot. He really needs to hire a lawyer, even if it’s on an installment plan.
Do not engage with her ever and document every single thing. Wait safely for future legal proceedings.
Oh my! This sounds like a nightmare!