My co-parent recently changed our child’s preschool schedule without asking me first because his work schedule changed. Our child has gone to preschool three days a week for almost two years, and we have a status quo order that says neither of us can change our child’s daily schedule. I don’t like that he did this without consulting me—it’s interfering with my parenting time. I texted him politely that he’s not allowed to change the school schedule, but he responded saying the change is already set with the school. My lawyer says this violates the status quo order, but I’m unsure what to do now. Should I bring this up at our evidentiary hearing or have my lawyer file something before then?
You may want to let this go if the change doesn’t really impact you. It could show the court that you’re being flexible, which can work in your favor during the hearing. Maybe talk to your lawyer about addressing this informally first before filing anything.
@Aris
Thanks for the advice, I’m just frustrated that he didn’t ask me first. I’ll talk to my lawyer about it.
If he’s covering the full fee now, it might be best to compromise. The court could see it as him stepping up since you’re not working. Unless it’s a major disruption to your schedule, it might not be worth the fight.
@Zane
I guess you’re right, I’m just worried about setting a precedent where he can make changes without discussing it.
He’s not allowed to change the schedule under the status quo order, but since he’s covering the preschool fee, a judge might be sympathetic to his work needs. Document everything and discuss it with your lawyer, but this might be one to let go unless it’s really affecting your parenting time.
@Pace
I understand that. I’ll keep documenting it and see how it goes. Thank you for the input.
I think it’s important to talk to your lawyer. They might advise not to bring this up in court unless it’s really impacting you or your child. If you can show flexibility on this, it could benefit your case overall.
@Harlan
Thanks, I’ll definitely follow up with my lawyer before making any decisions.