Just curious what other people going through this are saying. At what age did they cease to meet? What conditions existed? Was it just short-lived?
What occurs if they won’t come over and you have a 50/50 custody agreement?
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You appear to be inquiring about custody arrangements and what happens if one parent fails to meet the agreed-upon terms. Could you kindly specify if you’re talking to a specific scenario or seeking general information on custody agreements and compliance concerns?
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Hi,
I went through this with my teenager around age 14. They felt more comfortable at my ex’s house and didn’t want to visit me as much. Here’s what I did:
- Talked Openly: I had honest talks with my child to understand their feelings.
- Stayed Flexible: I worked with my ex to adjust the schedule as needed.
- Got Help: We saw a family counsellor to help us understand each other better.
- Focused on Quality: I made the time we had together fun and special.
- Checked Legal Rights: I talked to a lawyer to know my options without making things worse.
It was tough, but we found a good balance by being patient and supportive.
Yes, my adolescent stepchildren have refused to come around me at times. This is a common issue that many stepparents face. Adolescent stepchildren are at risk for behavioral problems and may reject or avoid their stepparent. They are going through a difficult identity crisis and major life changes, so having a new parental figure can be very challenging for them. The best approach is to be patient, avoid forcing a relationship, and focus on building trust gradually over time. Recognize the huge adjustment and losses the child has experienced. Make an effort to include the stepchild in family activities, but also give them space and one-on-one time with their biological parent. With time and a gentle approach, many adolescent stepchildren will eventually warm up to their stepparent as they adjust to the new family dynamic.