Do I have to give baby to ex before receiving temporary order?

My infant son and I are in a DV shelter. My soon-to-be ex filed for divorce and an emergency custody claiming I am a drug addict, alcoholic with severe mental health issues. None of this is true, and he has no evidence to back it up. He served me with less than 24 hours to obtain counsel. I showed the judge all my evidence, but now I’m stuck.

My problem is that I can’t see or speak to my ex due to shelter rules, and he keeps emailing me about seeing the baby. I told his attorney we need a third-party arrangement, but she’s acting like I’m denying him parenting time. I’m worried about giving the baby over to him before receiving the temporary orders. Will I get in trouble if I wait? I don’t trust him to bring the baby back, and he’s still breastfeeding. Thanks for any help.

Get an attorney. If he or his attorney contacts you, just state they need to reach out to your lawyer. They want to have a paper trail that you are denying access.

You really need your own attorney… like, now.

Stop talking with his lawyer and mute their number. Follow the shelter rules closely. They should have lawyers to help you navigate this.

Do not communicate with his attorney. Get a lawyer immediately. The DV shelter should have resources for this.

Just mute the number. You need to document what he’s saying without engaging with it.

Do not give him the baby until there is a court order. Keep records of all interactions.

Don’t hand him over until you have the order. He may use this against you.

No, do nothing without orders. Speak to the shelter coordinator for guidance.

You don’t have to do anything until you receive the temporary orders. His attorney is trying to trick you.

Please do NOT let him get that baby. The DV facility should be helping you find legal connections.

Do not talk to his attorney. They are trying to trick you into giving the baby over.

If you can’t afford a lawyer, contact your local modest means lawyer as they prioritize abuse cases.