My boyfriend (45M) is facing a challenging child support situation with his ex (42F). She is demanding a double increase in child support but refuses to disclose her income. We are worried about parental alienation and the safety of their children. He covers many expenses beyond his legal obligations and is concerned about his 13-year-old feeling financially responsible for adult issues. He also worries about the safety of their 9-year-old, who is being pushed to ride the public bus alone. I’m seeking legal advice on how to navigate these issues.
Just go to court. Document everything and let the court handle it.
You need to file a Request for Order (RFO) to address these issues. Stop being the ‘nice guy’—it’s costing you.
Document all instances of parental alienation and safety concerns. This can help if you decide to pursue a custody modification.
You can challenge her decision regarding the 9-year-old’s safety. Court may consider your concerns about his anxiety and maturity.
Consider mediation again, but prepare for court. If she refuses to cooperate, a judge may look favorably on your willingness to negotiate.