Ex left state with kids... what can I do?

Seeking Advice
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I filed for custody on 9/23/2024 because the other parent wasn’t cooperating with co-parenting. When I tried to serve her, I found out she had moved from her apartment, so I requested to re-issue the summons. This past week, I discovered she has moved out of Maryland with our kids. We were never married, and there’s no custody order since I couldn’t serve her. Is this illegal since she didn’t discuss it with me or get my permission? She’s also blocked me on everything, so I can’t ask for her new address to serve her.

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I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It sounds really frustrating. I think moving out of state with the kids without your consent could be a problem for her.

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Brinley said:
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It sounds really frustrating. I think moving out of state with the kids without your consent could be a problem for her.

Yeah, that sounds like it could be considered parental kidnapping, especially since you filed for custody.

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You should definitely consult with a lawyer about this. They can help you figure out what steps to take next.

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Ula said:
You should definitely consult with a lawyer about this. They can help you figure out what steps to take next.

I plan to, but I just feel so lost right now. It’s hard not being able to communicate with her.

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It’s tough when you can’t reach the other parent. Can you file an emergency motion with the court to address this situation?

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@Delilah
You might also want to check if the court has any resources for situations like this.

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Blocking you on everything is really petty. It’s good you filed for custody, though. That shows you’re serious about your rights as a parent.

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Vanya said:
Blocking you on everything is really petty. It’s good you filed for custody, though. That shows you’re serious about your rights as a parent.

Thank you! I just wish I could get more clarity on my options.

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@Delilah
Hang in there. You’re taking the right steps. Just keep pushing for your kids.

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I think it’s important to document everything. Keep records of your attempts to serve her and any communication you’ve had.

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Savannah said:
I think it’s important to document everything. Keep records of your attempts to serve her and any communication you’ve had.

That’s a good idea. I’ll start keeping track of everything I can.