Hi guys,
I’m dealing with a tricky situation with my ex in a California custody case. My ex recently moved an hour away and is trying to change our visitation arrangement, despite a court order. He showed up unannounced to drop off medication and insisted on seeing our daughter, despite me telling him it wasn’t a good time. He recorded our conversation without prior notice and has contacted my family to spread false claims about me preventing him from seeing our child.
Can he demand to see our daughter during my scheduled time without notifying me? Is his recording of the interaction legal, and how can I prevent him from involving my family in these disputes? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. 
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I’m really sorry to hear about the stress you’re going through with your ex in your custody case. In California, your ex cannot demand to see your daughter during your scheduled time without proper notice, as visitation should follow the court order. As for the recording, California is a two-party consent state, meaning it’s illegal for him to record you without your knowledge or consent. Regarding him involving your family, while you can’t control his actions, you might consider addressing this behavior in court to prevent further disruptions. It’s important to document everything and consult with your attorney to protect your rights and your daughter’s well-being.
Wow, that sounds tough… In Cali, your ex can’t just pop in and demand visits outside the agreed schedule. For recording, he needs consent from you to legally record, but it’s tricky—check local laws or get legal advice. As for involving your family, you might want to set clear boundaries and keep everything documented.