Hey guys, My divorce was finalized a month ago, and I’ve already spent a lot on legal fees. Recently, my ex-wife has been threatening to pursue an order of protection against me over our arguments about our kids. I’ve never physically harmed her or threatened her; we have some verbal disagreements. Should I go and file for an order of protection first to preempt her? Is it likely she could get one for granted? I’m worried since this is my first time hearing of this.
It’s a tough situation. If you feel you need to protect yourself, filing for an order of protection might be wise. Document everything that happens between you two.
If you have never threatened her and there’s no history of violence, it’s less likely she’ll get an order. But be proactive and consult a lawyer if you can.
Make sure to keep all communications documented. If you file first, it could help show that you’re not the aggressor.
Even if you don’t think she has a case, it’s better to be safe. Seek legal advice if possible, even just for a consultation.
You might want to consider mediation or a parenting plan to reduce conflict. It could help prevent these situations from escalating.