I find myself in a challenging situation. My former partner, with whom I have a child on the way, and I never married. Recently divorced, she and I committed adultery during her marriage, complicating matters. I’ve long wanted a DNA test, but she dismissed my concerns, now hinting at legal action to establish paternity after I refused to sign an affidavit. In our state, if she was married at conception, her ex-husband is presumed the father unless proven otherwise. Can I walk away from this legally? Could her ex be drawn back into the picture despite their divorce? Has anyone been through something similar and can offer guidance?
If you want to walk away, you can, unless paternity is legally challenged. Her ex could be involved if she seeks state assistance or questions paternity. Legal advice might be your best step.
Marlowe said:
If you want to walk away, you can, unless paternity is legally challenged. Her ex could be involved if she seeks state assistance or questions paternity. Legal advice might be your best step.
I appreciate the insight. Walking away seems unlikely now as she’s pursuing legal avenues. I understand the consequences of my actions and will face them.
In our state, her ex-husband is presumed the father if she was married at conception, but you can dispute paternity within the first 60 days after the child’s birth. Don’t sign anything without a DNA test if you want to establish paternity. Legal counsel might be beneficial.
@Caroline
She’s already threatening child support, claiming I’m the father. Does this hold if her ex is legally presumed?
Dezi said:
@Caroline
She’s already threatening child support, claiming I’m the father. Does this hold if her ex is legally presumed?
She can contest paternity within the first 60 days. A DNA test would determine the biological father. Stay informed about your rights.
@Caroline
Seems like there’s no easy out. She’s determined to pursue this legally, regardless. Thanks for clarifying.
Paternity must be established legally. Her ex could be involved initially, but you have rights to dispute paternity if necessary.
Palmer said:
Paternity must be established legally. Her ex could be involved initially, but you have rights to dispute paternity if necessary.
Even if I don’t want to be involved, could her ex be held liable if he’s not the biological father?
@Dezi
Children have rights to support from both parents. Legal processes will clarify paternity, whether you’re involved or not.
Soren said:
@Dezi
Children have rights to support from both parents. Legal processes will clarify paternity, whether you’re involved or not.
True, I’ll have to accept the situation. It’s a lot to process, but I understand the responsibilities involved.