My fiancée went to visit her mom on December 16th with our kids and just told me she’s moving out of our apartment, taking the kids with her due to her mental health (postpartum depression). She just switched from Lexapro to a new medication. I work night shifts in EMS and do a lot of overtime to support our family, but she doesn’t work and doesn’t have a car. Her parents live in a trailer, and it’s not a good environment for my kids. We argue mainly about the apartment being messy—like toys everywhere and dirty dishes not being cleaned. I feel like I’m the only one cleaning up. I called the sheriff’s office, and they said there’s nothing they can do. Now, I won’t see my kids on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day, and I’m heartbroken. What can I do?
I’m really sorry to hear what you’re going through. Have you considered talking to a family lawyer about your rights?
It sounds like you’re doing everything you can for your kids. Maybe try to reach out to her family and express your concerns about the kids’ well-being.
Florence said:
It sounds like you’re doing everything you can for your kids. Maybe try to reach out to her family and express your concerns about the kids’ well-being.
That’s a good idea. I’m worried about the environment they’re in right now.
Have you thought about documenting everything? It might help in case you need to take legal steps later.
I can’t imagine how hard this is for you. It’s clear you love your kids. Maybe consider reaching out to a therapist to help cope with this situation.
It’s heartbreaking not to see your kids during the holidays. You’re not a deadbeat; you’re doing your best. Hang in there.
Have you discussed the possibility of switching your shifts to see the kids more? It sounds like you’re willing to make changes.
Dare said:
Have you discussed the possibility of switching your shifts to see the kids more? It sounds like you’re willing to make changes.
Yes, I can switch to day shifts. I just want to make sure they’re taken care of.