I just filed for sole custody in the county where my kids live with their mom. What should I do next? Do I need to get a lawyer first, or is it okay to just file and then figure out the rest? Any advice would be great!
Did you serve the mom yet? That’s usually the next step after filing.
Darian said:
Did you serve the mom yet? That’s usually the next step after filing.
Not yet. Do I serve her myself or does someone else do that?
Darian said:
Did you serve the mom yet? That’s usually the next step after filing.
You can’t serve her yourself. Usually, the sheriff or a process server handles it.
You don’t have to get a lawyer, but having one might make things easier. Just saying!
Celine said:
You don’t have to get a lawyer, but having one might make things easier. Just saying!
Yeah, that’s what I was thinking. Does having a lawyer really make a big difference?
Celine said:
You don’t have to get a lawyer, but having one might make things easier. Just saying!
Totally. A good lawyer can help you prepare for the hearing and navigate the legal stuff.
After serving her, you’ll get a hearing date. Be prepared for that part—it’s important.
Zofia said:
After serving her, you’ll get a hearing date. Be prepared for that part—it’s important.
Got it. What should I bring to the hearing?
Zofia said:
After serving her, you’ll get a hearing date. Be prepared for that part—it’s important.
Bring any documents or evidence that supports your case, like custody schedules or communication logs.
Wait, what’s a process server? Never heard of that.
Leah said:
Wait, what’s a process server? Never heard of that.
It’s someone who officially delivers legal papers, like court notices. They make sure the other person gets it.
Leah said:
Wait, what’s a process server? Never heard of that.
Oh okay, thanks for explaining!
If you’re tight on money, you can file and serve without a lawyer, but it’s definitely harder.
Rowen said:
If you’re tight on money, you can file and serve without a lawyer, but it’s definitely harder.
Yeah, money’s a bit tight, so I’m trying to figure out the best way to handle this.
Rowen said:
If you’re tight on money, you can file and serve without a lawyer, but it’s definitely harder.
Understandable. Maybe consult a lawyer just for advice before the hearing? Some do free consultations.