Need advice: We are planning to go on vacation in January out of the country. My daughter is 14 years old. In order to leave the country, she would need a letter of consent from her dad. But he is not willing to, because he wants to control the negotiation issues of divorce. How can we go on vacation without a consent letter? I have sole custody of my daughter.
This seems a bit odd as you have sole custody; the father would not have a say. That being said, why do you have sole custody?
You should consult a family lawyer about your situation. They can provide guidance on custody laws and traveling with your child.
In some cases, if you have sole custody, you may not need a consent letter. Check with the airline and border services for their requirements.
I understand your frustration. It might be worth discussing the situation with your ex to find a compromise for the trip.