I’m looking for advice and opinions on whether it’s acceptable to spank a child that isn’t yours, like a nephew or niece. I wasn’t there to witness it, but I heard it was an act of aggression, not punishment. The parents were easily accessible to handle the situation themselves. Please, no mean comments—just trying to understand different perspectives.
In general, it’s best to avoid spanking any child that isn’t yours. It can lead to misunderstandings and escalate situations.
Amaya said:
In general, it’s best to avoid spanking any child that isn’t yours. It can lead to misunderstandings and escalate situations.
That makes sense. I can see how it could be taken the wrong way.
Discipline should ideally come from the parents or guardians. If you feel a child is in danger, it’s better to intervene verbally rather than physically.
Skylar said:
Discipline should ideally come from the parents or guardians. If you feel a child is in danger, it’s better to intervene verbally rather than physically.
I agree. I think communication is key.
As a relative, I’d suggest discussing any behavioral issues with the parents instead. They might appreciate your concern.
Sofia said:
As a relative, I’d suggest discussing any behavioral issues with the parents instead. They might appreciate your concern.
That’s a great idea! I’ll definitely consider that approach.
It’s important to create a safe environment for children. Physical discipline can often be harmful and lead to more aggression.
Xyla said:
It’s important to create a safe environment for children. Physical discipline can often be harmful and lead to more aggression.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I’ll keep this in mind moving forward.
Every family has their own rules about discipline. It’s best to respect those boundaries, especially if you’re not the parent.
Ocean said:
Every family has their own rules about discipline. It’s best to respect those boundaries, especially if you’re not the parent.
Absolutely! I want to be respectful of their choices.