Legitimation and custody issues

Custody and Visitation Forum
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I have a 3-year-old daughter. When she was about 1 year old, while I was away for work in construction, her mother signed away her parental rights, custody, and guardianship to her sister. We were not married, and I have not been legally recognized as her father. I fought this in court for a year but couldn’t afford a lawyer, and I was pressured into dropping the case when they hired one. It’s been a year since then, and I’ve taken all necessary steps to ensure I am stable and capable of being a good father to my children.

I am currently in custody battles for my two other daughters, ages 2 and newborn. I believe I will gain custody of both, but my main concern is my 3-year-old daughter. After legitimization, since I did not sign those papers and am her biological and soon-to-be legal father, would that invalidate the papers? What steps do I need to take to regain custody of my daughter? It is important to note that the mother has cut off communication with me and has not allowed my daughter to know or see me since she gained custody, and has also kept the mother out of her life.

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Entering three-way custody disputes—whoa—Either you’re the issue or you have incredibly terrible taste in partners. Additionally, hiring a lawyer would be really helpful if you really love and want to be with your daughter and are getting the serious aid you need to obtain her sooner. If not, you can be in for a drawn-out and fruitless struggle. Attorneys have a far quicker way of slicing through the bullshit.

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The guardianship documents would not be null and void. It would be necessary for you to file a petition to change the guardianship or to get custody. After that, you must fulfill any requirements set down by your jurisdiction to change custody (typically in the child’s best interest).