She never went to his courts and testified, it’s been 2 separate times, domestic violence, assault, criminal threats, vandalism, violation of court order to prevent domestic violence. And willful cruelty to child, and robbery 2nd degree. All the charges were from her calling police. She still is with him, district attorney just picked up a whole load of charges. He currently has an active arrest warrant for some reason it’s only a misdemeanor. But the charges are Assault deadly weapon x2, Assault x2, Criminal threats, Vandalism, and the violate court order to prevent domestic violence. This is in California by the way. We have 50/50 custody, I don’t want my kid around this worthless piece of 
she wants to be with. They have a new baby as well. What should I do? Thanks, any advice will help.
This sounds really concerning. Have you thought about going back to court to modify the custody agreement? With all those charges, it might be worth it.
Jai said:
This sounds really concerning. Have you thought about going back to court to modify the custody agreement? With all those charges, it might be worth it.
Yeah, I was thinking about it. Just not sure how to go about it with all the legal stuff.
You definitely need to document everything. Keep records of any incidents or charges. It could help your case if you decide to take it back to court.
Natalie said:
You definitely need to document everything. Keep records of any incidents or charges. It could help your case if you decide to take it back to court.
I’ve been doing that. Just trying to keep track of everything that happens.
Have you talked to a family law attorney? They can give you specific advice based on your situation and help you understand your options.
August said:
Have you talked to a family law attorney? They can give you specific advice based on your situation and help you understand your options.
Not yet, but I’ve been considering it. Just trying to figure out if it’s worth the cost.
It might be tough with the 50/50 custody arrangement, but if you can show that the environment isn’t safe for your kid, that could help your case.
Keir said:
It might be tough with the 50/50 custody arrangement, but if you can show that the environment isn’t safe for your kid, that could help your case.
That’s what I’m worried about. I just want to make sure my kid is safe.
Definitely look into it. The safety of your child should be the priority. If you have any evidence of the boyfriend’s behavior, that could really strengthen your case.