I was married to my ex-wife for about a year, then divorced, but we got back together less than a year later without legally remarrying. We have a 4-year-old son. After being back together for about a year, we bought a mobile home that’s in my name, on her family’s property. I agreed to move out recently to give her space, but less than a week later, she started dating someone else and let him move in. Now I’m paying mortgage and rent at both places. I’m worried she’ll take my son and come after me for child support if I remove the home. We initially had joint custody and no child support, but now she only lets me see my son 2 days a week. I’m talking to a lawyer next week, but I’m curious about what others would do in my situation.
It sounds really tough. Since you have joint custody, you should definitely talk to your lawyer about getting that back in writing, especially with the changes in her behavior.
Peyton said:
It sounds really tough. Since you have joint custody, you should definitely talk to your lawyer about getting that back in writing, especially with the changes in her behavior.
Yeah, I want to make sure we stick to what we initially agreed on.
Document everything—texts, calls, everything. It’ll help your case if you need to go to court.
Quiana said:
Document everything—texts, calls, everything. It’ll help your case if you need to go to court.
I’ve been keeping track of everything. I just want to do what’s best for my son.
If she’s violating the custody agreement, you might have a strong case. Make sure your lawyer knows all the details.
Westin said:
If she’s violating the custody agreement, you might have a strong case. Make sure your lawyer knows all the details.
That’s the plan! I want to get my son back to the schedule we had before.
You’ve been a great dad, so fight for that time with your son. It’s important for him to have stability.
Zofia said:
You’ve been a great dad, so fight for that time with your son. It’s important for him to have stability.
Absolutely. I just wish things could go back to how they were.
Consider proposing a split expense agreement for your son. It might show the court you’re trying to work together.
Alexander said:
Consider proposing a split expense agreement for your son. It might show the court you’re trying to work together.
That’s a good idea. I’d prefer to keep things civil for his sake.