On Monday, I will be going to file for divorce to end a nearly two-year marriage. I live in Chicago, Cook County. Is there someone who can walk me through what I need to bring? We don’t have any children, so it should be straightforward. I am going to have him served, and what happens if they don’t reach him? Will they try more than once?
I believe that three attempts need to be made. You may want to look into a private server.
Rachel said:
I believe that three attempts need to be made. You may want to look into a private server.
Yes, a private server can be more efficient. I had a similar experience.
Rachel said:
I believe that three attempts need to be made. You may want to look into a private server.
Yes, a private server can be more efficient. I had a similar experience.
It took my friend four attempts with a private server, but it was worth it for the peace of mind.
@Rachel
How much did it cost?
Valor said:
@Rachel
How much did it cost?
I think it was around $100. But prices can vary, so it’s good to shop around.
Make sure to bring your identification and any marriage documents. It’s also good to have your financial information ready.
Bernice said:
Make sure to bring your identification and any marriage documents. It’s also good to have your financial information ready.
What kind of financial information do I need?
@Valor
You should have recent bank statements, pay stubs, and any relevant financial documents.
I’m in a similar situation. I’m nervous about the whole process.
Ava said:
I’m in a similar situation. I’m nervous about the whole process.
It’s completely normal to feel nervous. Just take one step at a time.
Ava said:
I’m in a similar situation. I’m nervous about the whole process.
It’s completely normal to feel nervous. Just take one step at a time.
Thanks for the reassurance. I just want it to be over quickly.
If your spouse is difficult to serve, consider using certified mail as an alternative.
Kelsey said:
If your spouse is difficult to serve, consider using certified mail as an alternative.
Is that a valid option?
Kelsey said:
If your spouse is difficult to serve, consider using certified mail as an alternative.
Is that a valid option?
Yes, but you need to check the rules in your county to ensure it’s acceptable.
Make sure to document everything. Keep records of your attempts to serve him.
Olivia said:
Make sure to document everything. Keep records of your attempts to serve him.
That’s very important. Documentation can help your case significantly.
What if he refuses to be served? Can I still proceed?
daisytallisman said:
What if he refuses to be served? Can I still proceed?
You can still proceed, but it may take longer. You might need to involve the court to allow service by alternative means.
Remember to take care of yourself during this process. It can be emotionally taxing.