Reporting abandonment of my niece... what should I do?

Seeking Advice
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I need some advice. :cry:

Three months ago, my sister left her daughter with us, planning to stay for just two weeks while she got back on her feet after being evicted. Now, she doesn’t even check in and sent a box of clothes but that’s it. My husband and I have three kids of our own and would gladly take custody, but they refuse to give it up. I’m worried about reporting abandonment, but I also don’t want her to go into foster care. What can we do?

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First off, thanks for taking care of your niece. That’s really commendable of you.

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This sounds really tough. Have you thought about talking to a lawyer? They might help you figure out the best steps to take.

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Quilla said:
This sounds really tough. Have you thought about talking to a lawyer? They might help you figure out the best steps to take.

Yeah, I’m considering that. I just want to make sure I’m doing the right thing for her.

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You could also go to your local courthouse and file for guardianship. That way, you won’t need anyone’s permission, and it keeps the child safe with you.

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Gretchen said:
You could also go to your local courthouse and file for guardianship. That way, you won’t need anyone’s permission, and it keeps the child safe with you.

Really? I didn’t know I could do that without involving child welfare. That sounds promising.

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@Kiran
Yeah, it should be pretty straightforward if you’re caring for her. Just make sure to document everything!

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I’ve been through something similar. It’s so important to act quickly. The courts can move fast if you push for it.

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Reign said:
I’ve been through something similar. It’s so important to act quickly. The courts can move fast if you push for it.

Thanks for sharing your experience! I’ll get on it right away.

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Make sure to notify the courts about the situation. If you don’t, the child could end up in a foster home, which you want to avoid.

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Nicole said:
Make sure to notify the courts about the situation. If you don’t, the child could end up in a foster home, which you want to avoid.

What do you mean by notifying the courts? Can you explain that a bit more?

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@Kiran
You can call the state central registry and report abandonment or file a custody petition in family court. It’s crucial to have legal involvement.