I have a restraining order against my ex, which says he can’t come within 150m of where I’m known to be. Because he coaches our kids, I can’t attend their practices or games without being in the wrong for forcing him to violate the order. I’ve been respecting this, even though I really want to see my kids play. The frustrating part is that he still shows up at all my family functions. If I call the cops to report him, he’ll likely go to jail and probably won’t make bail, since he’s already broken the restraining order twice. I really don’t want him in jail, but I also don’t want my rights violated. I’m feeling stuck and don’t know what to do.
That’s such a tough situation. It’s unfair that you can’t see your kids because of him. Have you thought about talking to a lawyer?
Ellery said:
That’s such a tough situation. It’s unfair that you can’t see your kids because of him. Have you thought about talking to a lawyer?
I haven’t yet, but I think I need to. Just trying to figure out what steps to take next
You shouldn’t have to miss out on your kids’ games. Maybe there’s a way to set up supervised visits or something?
Opal said:
You shouldn’t have to miss out on your kids’ games. Maybe there’s a way to set up supervised visits or something?
That could be a good idea. I just want to make sure I’m following the law
It sounds like he’s really taking advantage of the situation. I’d definitely document everything he does that violates the order
Daphne said:
It sounds like he’s really taking advantage of the situation. I’d definitely document everything he does that violates the order
I’ve been keeping notes, but it feels daunting. I just want some peace
You deserve to see your kids without worrying about him. Have you thought about reaching out to a support group for parents in similar situations?
Frida said:
You deserve to see your kids without worrying about him. Have you thought about reaching out to a support group for parents in similar situations?
That’s a good point. I could use some support from others who understand
It’s frustrating that he can still show up at your family events. You should prioritize your safety and your rights. Keep talking to people who can help you
Maria said:
It’s frustrating that he can still show up at your family events. You should prioritize your safety and your rights. Keep talking to people who can help you
Thanks for the advice. I’m really trying to figure out the best way to handle this