Should I get a paternity test after my ex's cheating?

So, here’s the deal. My ex-girlfriend cheated on me and got pregnant. She initially told me she was keeping the baby and marrying the other guy, but later said she was unsure who the father was. After her doctor’s appointment, she claimed it was the other guy’s based on the age they gave her. We broke up in mid-October, and she said she cheated in mid-November. She also mentioned having a negative pregnancy test and a period while we were still together. I feel like there’s a chance it could be mine, but her word is all I have, and I don’t trust her anymore. I asked for a paternity test, but she got angry and refused, saying it would just stress her out. I’m considering getting a lawyer to see if I can get a court-ordered paternity test after the baby is born. Should I go that route or just take her word for it?

I think you should definitely get a paternity test. If there’s even a slight chance it could be yours, you need to know for sure.

Claire said:
I think you should definitely get a paternity test. If there’s even a slight chance it could be yours, you need to know for sure.

Exactly. It’s better to know than to have doubts hanging over you.

Trusting her seems risky, especially after everything. A paternity test is a smart move.

NAVEAH said:
Trusting her seems risky, especially after everything. A paternity test is a smart move.

Plus, if the child is yours, you’ll want to be involved in their life.

It’s totally reasonable to get a lawyer involved. You deserve clarity about your situation.

RobertGabriel said:
It’s totally reasonable to get a lawyer involved. You deserve clarity about your situation.

Yeah, especially since she seems to be dodging the issue. Good luck with everything.

I wouldn’t trust her word at all. Get that test and find out for sure.

Richforester said:
I wouldn’t trust her word at all. Get that test and find out for sure.

Right? It’s your right to know, and you should pursue that.

If you want to support the child, knowing paternity is crucial. Go for the test.

Evelyn said:
If you want to support the child, knowing paternity is crucial. Go for the test.

Absolutely. Being involved in the child’s life is what matters in the end.