I was recently informed by my ex that she wants to go through the courts for child support. We had a verbal agreement about child support and custody for the past five years. Earlier this year, I loaned her $4000 to help her out until her new partner’s child support kicked in. Now, I’m upset that she’s asking for more money after I helped her. I’m considering stopping the voluntary child support until a court order is made. Would I be held responsible for the missed payments if I go this route?
Stopping payments could lead to legal trouble. It’s usually best to continue paying until a court says otherwise.
You might be held responsible for child support if you stop paying, especially since you had an agreement, even if it was verbal.
Consider consulting a lawyer before making any changes. They can give you specific guidance based on Louisiana law.
Document everything, including your loan to her. It could be important in court if there’s a dispute over payments.
Communication is key. Discuss the situation with her and see if you can come to an understanding before it goes to court.