I’m dealing with a temporary support order that requires me to give nearly all my income to my ex. She is living in a big house for half the mortgage and has no debts, while I’m drowning in legal fees and credit card debt. My income is good but disappears quickly due to these obligations. Is this common for a judge to set such an order that effectively forces one parent to settle for an unfair deal?
You really need a lawyer. If you already have one, consider getting a new one. This sounds tricky.
Could you take out low-interest credit cards to cover legal fees? Maybe increasing custody time could reduce child support?
Sometimes it feels like letting everything fall apart is the only way. But that could backfire with back pay.
Have you discussed payment plans with your lawyers? They should recognize your financial situation.
Consider moving back into the house. If it’s in joint names, she can’t really refuse. If not, maybe sell it.
It’s tough to see how fathers are often berated for struggling to pay child support. I can empathize with your situation.
If you’re making over $200k and still struggling, something is off. What’s your actual budget look like?
Consider applying for modest means legal aid. They can help if you’re low on funds.
It sounds like you’re dealing with both alimony and child support issues. That can create a heavy financial burden.
Explore ways to increase your income or reduce expenses. Consider part-time work or selling things you don’t need.
Just remember, this situation won’t last forever. In a few years, things will likely be more manageable.
It feels impossible with these support orders. My partner’s ex is in a similar situation, and it’s frustrating.
I’m trying to manage everything, but it’s hard when I feel like I’m paying to keep her comfortable while I’m struggling.
If you’re low on cash, look into local legal aid or pro bono services. They might help with your case.