Two weeks ago when confronted by my husband about his affair

I found out that my husband has been having an affair for months, and it feels like everything has turned upside down. When I confronted him, he didn’t deny it, but now I’m just stuck in a whirlwind of emotions. What do I even do from here? Any advice or anyone been through something similar?

I’m so sorry to hear that, I’ve been there. It’s really hard, but don’t be afraid to lean on friends or family for support. Have you talked about what you both want moving forward?

Oh wow, I feel for you. I’ve been in a similar situation, and it’s like being in a fog. What helped me was just taking time to focus on myself. It’s so easy to get caught up in their mess, but you need to find your strength first. IDK, maybe give it a bit of time and see if he shows any real effort to change?

Honestly, trust is the hardest thing to rebuild after something like this. You deserve to take your time and decide what’s best for you. Have you considered talking to a therapist or counselor?

I agree with JKL. Therapy might help, especially if you two want to try rebuilding things. If not, it could at least give you some clarity on how to move forward. Either way, you deserve peace of mind. Just make sure you do what’s best for YOU, not just him.

I’ve been through something similar and, honestly, the only advice I can give is to trust your gut. If you feel like you can’t move forward with him, it’s okay to walk away. Healing starts when you take control of your own life again.