My ex has been violating our mediation agreement since June. I’ve tried discussing it, but she ignores me. My lawyer suggests a motion for contempt, but I’m concerned about the costs and potential outcomes. Some major violations include her moving our son to a different school without my consent and not keeping me updated on medical appointments. She also suggested her new boyfriend adopt my son, which I refused. If I file for contempt, what outcomes should I expect? Can I recoup legal fees? What’s the worst-case scenario?
Filing a motion for contempt can lead to the court enforcing the agreement, but the outcome varies. You may be able to get some legal fees back if the court finds her in contempt, but it’s not guaranteed.
The worst-case scenario could include her retaliating, but if you have documented violations, you’re in a strong position. Just be prepared for the emotional toll.
Her suggestion for adoption could be seen as an attempt to undermine your parental rights, which may strengthen your case in court. Keep all communications documented.
Consider mediation first before going to court. It might save you money and could lead to a more amicable resolution.
I’ve tried talking and mediation hasn’t worked. I feel like court intervention is the only way forward. Thanks for the advice.