So, I’m divorced and in Kansas, and me and my ex are having a disagreement about the parenting plan. I’ve got a new work schedule and I’m trying to adjust the plan a bit so I can see my son more. But according to the current schedule, Thanksgiving is supposed to be my time, and now my ex is taking my son to California for 4 days during Thanksgiving. I’ve got a Family Assessment interview coming up next week. Not sure what to do about all this. Any advice?
Sounds frustrating… since the parenting plan says it’s your time with your son, you can definitely raise that as an issue. Make sure to bring any proof of the current schedule and the trip details to the interview. Stay calm and focus on what’s best for your son.
For the Family Assessment, you should stay calm and clear. They’ll likely ask you about your parenting strengths and how you handle challenges. It’s all about showing that you’re committed to your son’s well-being.
In situations like this, flexibility is key. Be sure to show you’re willing to work things out and that your main goal is your son’s stability. If things don’t work out at the Family Assessment, you might have to go to mediation.
I’d suggest bringing evidence of your new work schedule and any attempts you’ve made to negotiate the parenting plan. The more you can show that you’re working in good faith, the better.
If they contact people who know you as a parent, they’ll probably ask about how you interact with your son, how you handle co-parenting, and any positive parenting actions you’ve taken. I’m sure your people will back you up if you’re on good terms with them.