What’ is the purpose of a Visitation for a Funeral?

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Hey Pals,

I’m trying to figure out what a visitation for a funeral involves. What’s its purpose and how does it fit into the funeral process? Does it happen before or after the service? What usually goes on during a visitation, and what are the etiquette rules? How long does it usually last? Any tips or experiences would be great.
Thanks…

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Hey there! A visitation is a time set aside before the funeral service where family and friends gather to pay their respects to the deceased and offer condolences to the family. It typically takes place a day or two before the funeral, though sometimes it happens on the same day. During the visitation, the body might be present in an open or closed casket, or there may be a display of photos and memories. It’s more informal than the funeral service itself, and people come and go as they please, usually over a few hours. The purpose is to provide a space for people to offer support and share memories in a less structured setting. As for etiquette, it’s generally about being respectful—dress modestly, offer condolences quietly, and be mindful of the family’s emotional state. Staying for about 15-30 minutes is common unless you’re very close to the family and want to stay longer. It’s a meaningful time for showing support, so just being there often means a lot to the grieving family.

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A visitation for a funeral provides a chance for family and friends to offer condolences, share memories, and pay their respects to the deceased. It helps in the grieving process and allows individuals to support one another during a difficult time.

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The purpose of visitation for a funeral is to honor the deceased and give condolences to the family and friends to the deceased.

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So which one would you suggest for someone to attend? especially if the deceased isn’t a family member? Does going for the visitation make more sense compared to the funeral? My worry is, the funeral service might be so intense that I may not even get to see my friend. Will I be a bad friend for going to the visitation and missing out on the funeral service?