Hi everyone,
I’m dealing with a situation where a 12-year-old doesn’t want to go to visitation with the other parent. We’re in Texas, and I’m trying to figure out what the legal options are. Can a child that age legally refuse visitation? How is this typically handled?
Any insights would be really appreciated.
Ain’t no lawyer but I know a 12 year old is old enough and has their reasons for not wanting visitation, especially by the other parent. Maybe you should let the child speak out their reasons before a judge and get it done with. Please don’t mess up their mental health further by forcing them to see the parent they don’t want to see. Maybe get them a therapist to talk to besides the judge.
I’ve faced a similar challenge with my own child, and I know how tricky it can be, especially when emotions are involved. In Texas, the courts generally require the child to follow the visitation schedule set by the custody order, regardless of their wishes. However, a 12-year-old’s preference may be taken into account if there’s a modification hearing, but it’s not usually enough on its own to change the arrangement. It’s important to handle this carefully, often involving a conversation with the other parent or even mediation to address any underlying issues. If the situation continues, consulting with a family law attorney might be necessary to explore your options.