Am I holding the divorce up?

My attorney filed contested. I want half the equity in the home, half the cash/retirements, and child support. My attorney added alimony and he’s paying my fees. He responded that he agreed to everything but alimony and fees. His attorney won’t talk to mine, so it sounds like this is going to mediation. But couldn’t I file to waive the alimony and fees to expedite the process? Do I have to make a counter claim/motion?

It’s worth discussing with your attorney about waiving alimony and fees to speed things up.

If you’re okay with giving up alimony, that might make negotiations easier.

You can file a motion to waive alimony, but consult your attorney first.

Mediation can help resolve disputes without going to court. It might be beneficial.

Make sure that waiving alimony won’t affect your financial security later.

Consider the long-term implications of waiving alimony before making a decision.

You might need to file a counterclaim if you want to make a formal request.

It’s always good to have a clear strategy when negotiating. Talk to your attorney about your goals.

Sometimes it’s better to compromise on one issue to resolve everything faster.

Keep your priorities clear and focus on what matters most to you in the settlement.