So my husband and I had to get a restraining order against his sister. She sent me this crazy text saying she was going to ki** us all. We were at my in-laws’ place, and I took that to mean everyone—including her parents and her baby. The state pressed charges, and the court approved a restraining order for a year. She’s been a problem for a while now, even threatening our neighbor a couple of years ago. My mother-in-law is trying to make us feel guilty about it, saying that my sister-in-law won’t get custody unless we drop the order. But honestly, I can’t see how that’s fair. Anyone have experience with this? Do you think the judge is really considering our restraining order in custody decisions?
Renew the RO. If your MIL doesn’t want the child, you take him.
Honestly, I would HOPE that having multiple restraining orders would be considered for custody—wouldn’t you?
NAL but I’d renew the restraining order and ignore your MIL. She’s the one who raised an irresponsible adult. You gotta protect your family.
Omar said:
NAL but I’d renew the restraining order and ignore your MIL. She’s the one who raised an irresponsible adult. You gotta protect your family.
What does NAL mean? Sorry, I’m not familiar with legal terms.
@Presley
Haha, no worries! It means ‘not a lawyer.’ Just sharing my thoughts.
Do not! Light yourself on fire to keep her warm. Renew the restraining order.
Her custody card is a total package, your protective order just shows the court she’s not fit. You shouldn’t have to risk yourself to help her out.
Do NOT ask for the RO to be removed! For your safety, renew it. SIL sounds unstable, and the court needs to see that.
I’m no lawyer, but your sister-in-law’s behavior sounds like it’s the real reason she’s not getting custody. Renew yours and keep moving on.