My kids’ mom and I don’t have a court order for visitation. She gets upset every other month and decides to cut my time with him whenever she feels like it. She says it’s because of his attitude, but he never acts out with me and is one of the top kids in his class. The issue was that I wasn’t giving her child support, but now I am, and she still isn’t budging. I work a lot, and by the time I get off work, most offices are closed. How long is the process?
A friend of mine had a lawyer provided for him by the court eight years ago. Is it true that the court provides a lawyer if you can’t afford one? I’m a single dad, and I’m not sure if I can afford a lawyer, but I’m willing to try. What’s the best way to go about this? Can anyone recommend a lawyer in the Los Angeles area?
I used to have him every other weekend and 2-3 times a week. Does the judge have a say, or is it solely up to the mother to decide?
You won’t simply be assigned a lawyer.
Your ex doesn’t have sole authority to determine custody arrangements. In California, a 50/50 custody split is the norm.
If you’re seeking legal assistance and can’t afford a lawyer, you may qualify for a court-appointed attorney. Contact the court to inquire about eligibility and the process for custody and visitation rights. It’s crucial to have legal representation to navigate these matters effectively, especially concerning your child’s well-being.
I’m now experiencing this. Find a lawyer as soon as possible if she is withholding your child. In the interim, save everything and take care of her ass.
Yes, CA stands for California. If you’re dealing with California courts, there are often help desks or clinics available to assist with paperwork. Since the process is now online, start it yourself and make sure to stay on top of follow-ups. If you need to dedicate a day every few months to manage this, it’s worth it, especially when a judge issues a formal judgment.
If you have something in writing and the other parent doesn’t comply, consider filing a police report and adding it to your court petition for custody changes, such as joint physical and legal custody.