I need some advice on whether a parent can move out of the family home during or prior to a divorce. My husband wants me to move out soon, but it’s his house and no legal proceedings have started yet. I moved into his house about 17 years ago, but I still own the house I lived in before we got married. Our kids are in their early teens, and my house is close by. If I agree to move out or if he pushes the issue, would that reflect poorly on me in the divorce? We’re both actively involved in their lives, especially since we split driving for their activities. We haven’t even discussed where the kids would stay or what custody would look like yet. I told him I won’t consider moving out unless we have something signed and agreed to, but could this impact any decisions later on?
It’s definitely a tricky situation. Moving out could potentially be seen as you stepping away from the family, which might impact custody discussions later.
Maddox said:
It’s definitely a tricky situation. Moving out could potentially be seen as you stepping away from the family, which might impact custody discussions later.
Exactly. If you do move out, make sure you have a clear plan for custody and the kids’ arrangements to avoid any misunderstandings.
You’re right to want something signed before making any moves. Protecting your interests is crucial. It can get complicated if you leave without an agreement.
Shay said:
You’re right to want something signed before making any moves. Protecting your interests is crucial. It can get complicated if you leave without an agreement.
Absolutely, having a written agreement can help clarify things for you both and keep the focus on the kids.
I get that it’s his house, but it’s important to stand your ground. If you feel pressured to leave, it might not be in your best interest.
Zimri said:
I get that it’s his house, but it’s important to stand your ground. If you feel pressured to leave, it might not be in your best interest.
Right? As long as you’re actively involved with the kids, you have every right to stay until things are settled legally.
Just keep in mind that every situation is unique. It might be helpful to consult with a lawyer about how moving could affect your case.
Eloise said:
Just keep in mind that every situation is unique. It might be helpful to consult with a lawyer about how moving could affect your case.
Good call. A lawyer can give you guidance on the best steps to take and what will protect your interests.
It’s tough, but your focus should be on your kids and their stability. Make sure any decision you make keeps that in mind.
Reid said:
It’s tough, but your focus should be on your kids and their stability. Make sure any decision you make keeps that in mind.
Exactly! Keeping the kids’ best interests at heart will guide you through this process.