I shared legal and physical custody with my daughter’s father until a domestic dispute led to him losing all custody and visitations after being charged with assault. A DV advocate helped me file protective orders, and I received a 2-year order. It’s been over a year now, and my daughter, who has always been close to her father, keeps asking to see him. I feel conflicted because, while I took protective measures for good reason, I wonder if it was too far. He hasn’t reached out or filed anything in court to see her. I’ve tried contacting him through calls and texts, but he doesn’t respond. I’m unsure about how to navigate this situation and restore their relationship. Any advice?
It’s great that you’re considering your daughter’s feelings. Maybe you could consult a family lawyer to discuss the possibility of supervised visitations if you feel it’s safe.
You should definitely seek legal advice. It’s important to prioritize your daughter’s safety but also her emotional needs.
Have you thought about family counseling? It could help both of you navigate this situation and give your daughter a space to express her feelings.
You’ve done what you needed to protect your child. If he hasn’t reached out, it may be worth exploring mediation or legal avenues to set up a safe way for them to reconnect.
It’s tough to balance safety and your daughter’s wishes. Document everything and consult with a lawyer who specializes in family law.