My son’s father and I share custody, but there have been situations where ChildLine reports were made against him for abuse. I filed for emergency relief and a modification, but only received a modification paper. My son has expressed that he doesn’t want to go home and feels uncomfortable there, particularly being told he is the cause of the problems. His father is not respecting how our son feels. I’m really at a loss for what to do.
What State are you in, OP?
Pennsylvania.
If you keep your child home, you risk being accused of withholding visitation. Make sure you have evidence that it’s for safety, not spite.
The child’s age matters. Consult a local attorney to avoid making things worse.
How old is your son? Unfortunately, until there’s a legal change, you can’t stop visitation just because he doesn’t want to go.
You need to file an emergency hearing to address your son’s feelings. In my case, the court acted quickly when my kids expressed discomfort.
If your son is in danger, you need to protect him. I withheld my kids from their mother due to safety concerns.
Did the judge say your son still has to go? What did CPS conclude?
Ignoring custody agreements can put you at greater risk. Consult a lawyer and pursue court-ordered supervision if necessary.