My ex asked to have our son for Christmas, but he hasn’t seen him since July. I said no because there’s no court order in place, but we’re in the process of getting mediation set up. I’m worried this decision might backfire on me. He’s only seen our son for a total of 11 hours this entire year. I’ve never prevented him from seeing the child whenever he wanted. He might try to tell the court that I’m making it ‘difficult’ for him to have our son. I have evidence to support my case. What should I do?
It’s tough without a court order. If you have evidence of his lack of involvement, that can help your case. Just be prepared for possible backlash.
I recommend consulting with a family law attorney. They can give you specific advice based on your situation and help you prepare for mediation.
Document everything! Keep a record of any communication and his visit history. It could be crucial during mediation.
I understand your concern. Just remember that the court will focus on what’s best for your child. If you can show that it’s in his best interest to stay with you, that will help.
It’s a tough situation. If he hasn’t been involved, it’s reasonable to be cautious. You’re protecting your child.