Ex doesn't want my daughter to see her family... what to do?

Parental rights Forum
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I’ve had primary custody of my 9-year-old daughter for almost a year now since my ex moved out of state. Since then, my ex’s family has tried to see my daughter a few times. The first time I brought her to visit, my ex tracked her via cellphone and gave us both an earful about how they’re a bad influence and how she doesn’t want our daughter around them. Just to clarify, there aren’t any legal or moral issues with her family; my ex can be pretty challenging and narcissistic. They are really nice and caring grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc. I feel like my daughter should know them, but I don’t want to risk my primary custody by ignoring my ex’s wishes. Honestly, there’s no way she’ll change her mind or have a rational talk about this. I’m feeling really stuck and caught in the middle of a weird family situation.

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That sounds tough. It’s super important for kids to know their family. Maybe try talking to a lawyer about your options?

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Shay said:
That sounds tough. It’s super important for kids to know their family. Maybe try talking to a lawyer about your options?

Yeah, for sure. If there’s no real issue, the court might see it your way. Just make sure to have all your facts straight.

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I totally get it. My ex did the same thing. Just keep a record of everything. It might help if it gets messy.

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Aaliyah said:
I totally get it. My ex did the same thing. Just keep a record of everything. It might help if it gets messy.

What do you mean by keeping a record? Like texts and stuff?

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@Bela
Yeah, exactly! Document any communication about visits or concerns. It can really help in court.

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Honestly, it sounds like you’re doing your best. Just focus on what’s best for your daughter. Maybe try a family counselor?

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Chris said:
Honestly, it sounds like you’re doing your best. Just focus on what’s best for your daughter. Maybe try a family counselor?

That’s a good idea. A neutral third party might help ease the tension.

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I feel you. My ex tried to keep my kids away from my family too. It’s frustrating. Hang in there!

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It’s so hard when they’re being unreasonable. Just remember, it’s about your daughter’s well-being in the end.