My "parents" are trying to take me to court for visitation with my child after I cut them off

Hey guys, I have had a traumatic relationship with my stepmother and father throughout my childhood and into adulthood. Their verbal abuse and physical threats, especially when I stood up for myself, were constant. They’re bullies and my sister suffers the most. I have seen them treat each other and my sister poorly behind her back, and recently, after I decided to cut off contact for my well-being and my daughter’s safety, my stepmother began manipulating and lying about me in a group chat with my siblings.

I made no contact due to their abusive behavior and neglect of my daughter. Their home, which I discovered was in a terrible condition with mold and roaches, was also a factor. I did not explicitly say they could never see us again, but only that they needed to show genuine change before we could reconnect. Now, they’re threatening to sue for visitation rights. They have manipulated the situation, and their refusal to respect my boundaries is pushing me further away.

What are my rights in this situation? Do they have a valid case? I’m a stay-at-home mom with no legal representation or evidence of the abuse, and I’m terrified of the legal implications.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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Declaring you will sue and actually locating an attorney and launching a case are two very different things. The latter necessitates persuading an attorney to accept the case and proving your innocence.

A grandparent’s rights are typically only applicable when the grandparent and grandchild already have a close relationship and something has happened to jeopardise it (such as the parent passing away). I would expect that they are just bogus threats meant to frighten you, but if you are truly served with a lawsuit, find pro bono legal services and treat it seriously.

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Yes, precisely. Do not talk to them, ignore them. You should be concerned if you are served.

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Before he finds out via the grapevine, also inform your daughter’s father of the situation. Your position will be stronger if your parents attempt to get visitation if you are co-parenting and he concurs with the LC/NC.