I’m a new father to a 9-week-old baby girl, but I’m facing issues with her mother. We’ve been together for 2 years, and I’m considering leaving due to her behavior. I want equal custody, but I’m unsure how this works in Missouri for a newborn. At what age can I realistically aim for a 50:50 custody split?
Make sure both you and the baby are safe. If she’s unstable, she might need medical help.
First, establish your parental rights. That’s crucial.
I’ve been in a similar position. I’d recommend not pushing for 50/50 right now. Aim for something like 60/40 or 70/30 until the baby is older. Proving she’s a bad parent can be tricky.
Are you married and on the birth certificate? If you are, discussing 50/50 with her could be helpful. Think about what that arrangement would actually look like.
In Missouri, 50/50 is generally seen as in the child’s best interest. The mother would need to prove otherwise for you to get less.
Consider what’s best for your child. 50/50 might not be ideal right now, especially if the mother is the primary caregiver. Discuss a gradual approach with your lawyer.