Hey everyone… I need some advice for a friend going through a divorce. She has three kids with her husband, who adopted her oldest. After telling him she was leaving last summer, he’s been pretty unstable, even being involuntarily admitted due to suicide attempts. He’s just started a part-time job, but she’s worried about his living situation. She’s open to 50/50 custody, but not if he can only provide a tiny place. Should she ask for sole custody with daytime visitation instead, or push for 50/50 but with conditions on his living situation and counseling? Any insights would be super helpful!
She should definitely consider asking for sole custody if his living situation is unstable. The kids’ safety and well-being come first.
If she’s willing to do 50/50, she could propose it with clear conditions about his living arrangements and counseling. It might show the court she’s willing to co-parent but is also looking out for the kids.
Counseling is really important, especially given his history. She should emphasize that in her requests. Stability is key for the kids.
Whatever she decides, documentation will be crucial. If he makes threats about moving or shows instability, she needs to keep records.
It might be worth consulting a family lawyer to get tailored advice for her situation. They can help her navigate the best approach.