I have sole custody of our children, and the father was ordered to have supervised visitation. Lately, he’s been showing up at their sports practices and games, engaging with them without his supervisor present. I’ve told him multiple times that he’s violating the court order since I’m not his supervisor and don’t feel safe around him due to the violence in our past relationship. He claims he’s not ‘exercising his parenting time’ and insists he will keep engaging. I thought he wasn’t allowed around the kids unless his supervisor was there until the judge said otherwise. Is he right about this?
It sounds like he’s definitely violating the court order. If it states he needs supervision, he shouldn’t be interacting with the kids alone.
Gray said:
It sounds like he’s definitely violating the court order. If it states he needs supervision, he shouldn’t be interacting with the kids alone.
Exactly, it’s not about him exercising parenting time. It’s about following the court order for everyone’s safety.
If he’s showing up without his supervisor, you should document everything. It could be important if you need to take further action.
Mia said:
If he’s showing up without his supervisor, you should document everything. It could be important if you need to take further action.
That makes sense. Keeping a record of these violations could help if you decide to go back to court.
Honestly, it seems like he’s trying to manipulate the situation. You have every right to protect your kids from potential harm.
Zander said:
Honestly, it seems like he’s trying to manipulate the situation. You have every right to protect your kids from potential harm.
Right? He can’t just ignore what the court ordered. It’s not just about him.
@Kai
Exactly, playing the parenting card doesn’t mean he can bypass safety measures.
You might want to consider consulting with a lawyer about this. It’s important to understand your options if he keeps violating the order.
Jalen said:
You might want to consider consulting with a lawyer about this. It’s important to understand your options if he keeps violating the order.
Good idea. A lawyer can help clarify what steps you can take to enforce the order.
It’s tough dealing with these situations. Just stay strong and keep focusing on what’s best for your kids. They need a safe environment.
Harlow said:
It’s tough dealing with these situations. Just stay strong and keep focusing on what’s best for your kids. They need a safe environment.
For sure. Your kids’ safety should always come first, no matter what.