Hi, I’m dealing with a divorce and I’m in a tough spot. My husband and I separated over a year ago, and now he’s asking me to sign an agreement where he keeps everything – the house, the dog, everything. He sponsored me for my green card, but now he wants me to leave with nothing. I feel like this is unfair, and I’m really worried that the judge won’t see it that way. Anyone know if the judge might recognize this as forced? I don’t want to keep arguing, but I also don’t want to be left with nothing.
I think the judge might recognize if it’s really unfair. If you weren’t allowed to work, that could factor in. Maybe try to seek legal help before you sign anything.
dickie said:
I think the judge might recognize if it’s really unfair. If you weren’t allowed to work, that could factor in. Maybe try to seek legal help before you sign anything.
Yeah, it sounds like you didn’t have much of a choice. A lawyer might help you push back if you feel this isn’t right.
It’s tough, but if you’re not happy with the agreement, you can contest it. Judges don’t just take things at face value, especially if you’re being pressured.
Finley said:
It’s tough, but if you’re not happy with the agreement, you can contest it. Judges don’t just take things at face value, especially if you’re being pressured.
Thanks! I’m just worried he has more power and influence. I’m trying to figure out if there’s a chance it could be considered unfair in the court’s eyes.
Also, if you were sponsored for your green card, he might have a legal obligation to support you. If you’re not working, that could come into play when the judge looks at the situation.
Arlen said:
Also, if you were sponsored for your green card, he might have a legal obligation to support you. If you’re not working, that could come into play when the judge looks at the situation.
I didn’t know that! I thought he was only supposed to support me until I could work. It was all so confusing.
If there was any abuse, even emotional or manipulative, you can bring that up in court too. It could make a difference in the judge’s decision.
Leah said:
If there was any abuse, even emotional or manipulative, you can bring that up in court too. It could make a difference in the judge’s decision.
He’s definitely been manipulative, but I’m scared that if I bring it up, things will just get worse. I want it to be easy, but I don’t want to be taken advantage of.
I know it’s hard, but don’t let him scare you into something you feel isn’t right. Legal aid might be a good option, even if it’s just for advice.
Skye said:
I know it’s hard, but don’t let him scare you into something you feel isn’t right. Legal aid might be a good option, even if it’s just for advice.
I’m planning to reach out to legal aid this week. I hope they can help me understand my options better.