I need some advice:
My child is currently resisting visits with her father, and I am at a loss on what steps to take. 
How should I handle this situation while keeping her feelings in mind? I would appreciate any insights or suggestions. 
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When a child resists spending time with the other parent, the parent they live with faces a difficult challenge. Despite not causing the issue, they must find a way to encourage the child to maintain a relationship with the other parent. This can be especially hard if the non-custodial parent is someone they dislike.
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Gently seek to find out why your child feels this way. It might be related to recent events, misunderstandings, or something from their interactions. Understanding the root cause will help you address the issue more effectively.
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After spending a weekend with his father and his new spouse, my son used to return home. My son and I made the decision to eat dinner at a nearby burger joint. After placing our order, our food was brought, and we began to eat. My youngster cried uncontrollably for two bites and begged, “Please don’t make me go back there ever again!”
I went , sat next him [rather than across him] and made a vow that he was free to go if he so chose. Clearly. I didn’t give a damn “why.” All that concerned me was that my laid-back son had become a ball of terror.
How old is your child? If she is a teenager, maybe it’s wise to ask her gently why she doesn’t want to see him. Additionally, you can have her talk to a counsellor to help her open up and get to know what the issue could be.