I’m currently dealing with a custody and financial split situation in Illinois after my separation. My ex and I had a verbal agreement about splitting finances after our separation, which we documented and acted upon. Now my ex is threatening to break that agreement and is trying to manipulate me into giving her more money by claiming she never agreed to the split. I have documentation of our agreement and monthly transactions that show we’ve been following it. If we go to court, what are the chances that the judge will enforce the original agreement? I’m worried about how this might impact the financial arrangements we’ve made. Any insights would be appreciated!
It sounds like you have solid documentation, which is key. Verbal agreements can sometimes hold weight, especially if you have proof of the arrangement. Make sure to present all your records in court. Good luck!
I think your best bet is to stop engaging directly with her. Let the court handle it. Focus on getting your documentation in order and prepare for court. You’ve got this!
Hannah said:
I think your best bet is to stop engaging directly with her. Let the court handle it. Focus on getting your documentation in order and prepare for court. You’ve got this!
Thanks for the encouragement! I’ll definitely focus on that.
It’s crucial to have a lawyer look over everything. They’ll know the ins and outs of what to expect in court. Keep your head up!
Make sure you document everything moving forward. If she refuses to honor the agreement, that could reflect poorly on her in court.
You might have a solid case, especially if you can prove that you’ve both acted on the agreement for several months. Just stay calm and present your side clearly.