What should I avoid saying during child custody mediation?

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What should I avoid saying during child custody mediation?

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hi amanda,
mediation aims to reach a mutually beneficial solution for all parties, with a focus on the child’s well-being. Keeping these principles in mind can improve the likelihood of achieving a positive and successful resolution.

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Be mindful not to make negative remarks about the other parent, abstain from making untrue allegations, and avoid attempting to control or influence the conversation.

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During child custody mediation, it is important to maintain a respectful and child-focused approach.

Here are some key things to avoid saying:

  1. Personal attacks: Avoid making negative comments about the other parent. These statements can escalate tensions and shift the focus away from the child’s best interests.
  2. Possessive language: Phrases like “my child” instead of “our child” can create a sense of division and conflict.
  3. Bringing up past mistakes: Focus on the present and future rather than dwelling on past issues. This helps keep the conversation productive and centered on the child’s needs.
  4. Aggressive or demanding statements: Using aggressive language or making unreasonable demands can hinder the mediation process. It is important to communicate calmly and reasonably.
  5. Discussing parental rights over child’s needs: Emphasize the child’s best interests rather than your rights or grievances.