What to do if the father isn't following the parenting plan?

I’m really struggling with my ex not sticking to our parenting plan. It’s so frustrating and I’m not sure what my options are. Has anyone been through this? Any advice would be super helpful!

Ugh, that sounds rough. I had a similar issue and it drove me crazy.

Lawer said:
Ugh, that sounds rough. I had a similar issue and it drove me crazy.

What did you do? I’m honestly at my wit’s end over here.

Sienna said:

Lawer said:
Ugh, that sounds rough. I had a similar issue and it drove me crazy.

What did you do? I’m honestly at my wit’s end over here.

I ended up talking to a lawyer. They helped me understand my rights.

I hear you! It’s so hard when the other parent doesn’t follow through. Have you tried talking to him about it?

Sky said:
I hear you! It’s so hard when the other parent doesn’t follow through. Have you tried talking to him about it?

Yeah, but sometimes those talks just turn into arguments. It’s exhausting.

@Vero
Totally get that… it helps to have a calm approach, but I know it’s not easy.

You might want to document everything. If it gets really bad, you could take it to court.

EricOrtiz said:
You might want to document everything. If it gets really bad, you could take it to court.

What do you mean by document? Like keeping a log?

Dez said:

EricOrtiz said:
You might want to document everything. If it gets really bad, you could take it to court.

What do you mean by document? Like keeping a log?

Yeah, exactly! Dates, times, and what happened. It can really help your case.

I had to enforce our plan through mediation. It was tough but worth it.

Brittany said:
I had to enforce our plan through mediation. It was tough but worth it.

Did mediation actually help? I’ve been thinking about that.

Stella said:

Brittany said:
I had to enforce our plan through mediation. It was tough but worth it.

Did mediation actually help? I’ve been thinking about that.

It did! It forced him to acknowledge the plan and make changes.