I am going to child custody mediation with my ex-spouse soon, and I am wondering who is allowed to attend. Can we all bring a lawyer? What about other family members - is it just the two of us, or may we invite more individuals to the mediation session? Before the meeting, I want to confirm who may attend.
Child custody mediation is generally attended by the parents of the child or children involved. However, other individuals may also participate under certain circumstances
Attending child custody mediation is just you and your ex-spouse. Lawyers might be allowed, but check with the mediator first. Family members usually sit this one out to keep things focused. The mediator will help you find common ground, so come prepared to work together for a child custody agreement.
- Anyone with a legal claim to custody of the child.
- The mediator.
- Attorneys—depending on jurisdiction; some require their presence, others prohibit them, while for some, it’s optional.
Child custody mediation is just you and your ex with the mediator. Lawyers might be allowed depending on your area, check beforehand. Friends, family and kids typically don’t attend to keep things focused. Talk to your ex about who will be there before the meeting for a smoother session.